Dear Becoming Girl,
Sometimes things are working out beautifully, and we just don’t notice because we thought we were sure that they would work out a completely different way than they are actually working out.
Sometimes we suffer when we don’t need to suffer because we don’t lift up our heads and see that things are actually turning around…getting better….making more sense than they used to. Sometimes all we need to do is lift up our heads and look for what is right….especially when there has been so much that has gone wrong that we have gotten used to seeing what is wrong.
Somehow, in some way, at some time…things always work out, beautiful friend. We often must simply let go of rigid attachments we have to the ONE way that we want things to work out….so often, there are such better ways that we don’t even know about yet.
Please give things a chance to work out, beautiful soul. Keep being patient and keep seeking for the good things…keep seeking for new little growth peeking up through the cracks of your life….looking for the sunshine and ready to grow grow grow in the light of it….it often shows up in places that seemed hopeless….or places that we never would have expected.
It is going to be ok.
You are so very loved.