Friday at Brave Girl Camp has the structure of Wednesday with the feelings of Thursday. It’s magical…and we try to hold on to the magic as long as we can. Nobody talks about how it’s our last day….kind of like we’re all in denial about camp ending at all! We enjoy every second together.
Brave Girl Camp is full of traditions and on Friday they are in full swing…like the song, “Everybody” that we play when it’s time to eat. By Friday everyone knows the words and sings along. Sometimes dancing even breaks out around the table as we get ready to sit down. So fun!
On Friday we have some special traditions. The first is that we always take a group picture in white shirts with colorful jewelry. Look at all our beauties from camp this last February – aren’t they lovely??
We love all our Brave Girls sooooo much!! Wish you could meet each one – they are absolutely spectacular women! {YOU included…even if you haven’t been to BGC yet – you are phenomenal and we LOVE YOU! Can’t wait til we get to meet in person!!}
And then of course while we’re all prettied up, we spend some time taking pictures with each of our dearies:


And how awesome is it that even though we’re going home tomorrow {which we are all still in denial about and don’t even mention} we have all of these incredible friends to hold hands with for the rest of our lives – no matter where we live…we are connected forever.
Friday tradition number 2 is the Art Gallery. After dinner, we are all invited to get whatever art we want to share with everyone and put it on display in the dining room. As we’re getting ready for our music night (tradition #3), we all take some time to go around the tables in the dining room and see what everybody’s made. It is incredible what can be done in just 4 short days!

And then, of course, there is the variety show…or music night. It seems to take on it’s own life with each camp – each one is a little different. For February 2011, we could definitely call Friday night’s music a variety show!
We have been preparing for months – practicing our guitars and finding new songs to share…
And when Friday night comes – we are READY!
At this camp, the show started out with Grandpa (Kallie speaking – this is MY Grandpa….he is Kathy and Melody’s dad…but everyone just calls him Grandpa. He and Grandma come to every camp and love our Brave Girls SO MUCH!). Anyway, Grandpa starts out the program by singing Muleskinner Blues, which is a song I’ve heard him sing at least one hundred times and I am just as enchanted now as I was when I was 5. It’s so fun to hear -
This is what it feels like to hear Grandpa sing…just try to hear it – “Well I’m an ol’ Muleskinner {Grandma chimes in with “ya you are!” from the audience} …from ol’ Kentu-hu-hu-huhu-ky…and I can make any ol’ mule listen…or I will not accept your pay…”
Since Grandpa is already standing up, he and Hilarie (one of our regular staff who knows every campfire song there is) treat us to The Battle of New Orleans…
In a word: awesome. And the awesomeness just keeps coming…
More silly songs – this time by Betsy, who is a guest:
A serious song, sung with a silly outfit because it is the only way to make it through…we call her Super Brave Girl…and she is…no cape required.
And we all chime in with our own verses to “Michael Row Your Boat Ashore”

And more Brave Girls sing us songs…
And if this were every other Friday night at Brave Girl Camp, this would be where it ended. But this Brave Girl Camp was during the very last week of our online class – Soul Restoration. And beautiful Brave Girls all over the world were on our minds and in our hearts. We wished each of them could be with us too…so we sang a special song for them…our song….the song that has been there from the beginning….
Before we know it, it’s time to go to bed for the very last time…but we still don’t admit it.























So want to go to a Brave girl camp week one of these days!
Still brings tears to my eyes when I see this! Thank you for all the light in my life!
so incredible. Truly incredible. What a gift this whole program is…Soul Restoration and BGC….can’t wait till I can get there in person! What wonderful art too~brave girls you did amazing stuff!
Ah, thought I could get through without crying but you had to include what you all did for those of us taking Soul Restoration…. Something I will never ever forget. <3
So Inspiring! Thanks for the reminder of the light my life brings. And what i can bring to those around me.
Wow – AWESOME!!
Good Golly! I miss you, Brave Girls!
Kathy and Melody, I don’t know how you belted out that song all the way through to the end. I lost my voice to the tears about halfway through. But that’s what Brave Girls does for us – you carry us through – you keep singing our song until we can find our voices again! Y’all totally ROCK!!
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
xoxo ~ Lisa C.
Such a beautiful blog post. And the timing of it is awesome. Kim and I were just saying TODAY that we wished we were there again. Then, after a long day, I come home to relive some of the magic through this wonderfully worded message. It’s like you heard our wish and posted this just when we were hungry for a little soul food. Thank you!
Even though I’m reading this at work and I can’t watch the video (dumb filters!!) I still have chills down my spine and my heart is fluttering as I recall singing that song with all the May 2010 Brave Girls…..and all Brave Girls around the world
Kathy & Melody-
What you have started and shared with so many will carry on in all the brave girls throughout the world…like all those candles….it is so awesome.
I will fill my life with love and bravery….thank you to all the brave girls at camp. To know that you all thought of us all (…me…) in soul restoration touches my heart.
I continue to heal and be amazed by all the love and understanding of brave girls everywhere……thank you and may you be blessed for the blessings you are!!
xo jenn
Thankyou, Thankyou, Thankyou! I Loved SR1, I could just imagine what BGC is like. Thanks for walking us through it all and I love watching the candle light video!!
Hugs to all!
Wow! What a fabulous blog post!! It is so inspiring, I truly can not wait to be able to attend Camp! I’m signed up for SR1 April and it can’t get here fast enough!
Bravo to all the Camp girls for such stuning creations!!! The video made me cry almost instantly! How BEAUTIFUL!!!!
Bless you for creating a place for all of us to be free to express ourselves through art, song, laughter, tears and our hearts!! <3
Ditto to what Megan said. Seeing this post today gave me a huge lift! And it’s funny that Megan and I WERE just talking about how much we missed Brave Girls. It truly was such a life-changing experience, one that you want to hold on to and keep fresh in your mind forever. These blog posts, the Brave Girl friends I now see through Facebook, and the Daily Truth e-mails have helped me do that. They’ve added so much to my daily life over the last month, and I’m grateful for them and Brave Girls every day. Thank you!
Oh Wow… I have goose bumps and tears running down my face !! To know that there was a candle lit to represent me … wow… I feel such a part of the beautiful club of Brave Girls !! I am inspired to shine my light and spread it to another in some tiny little way !! Thank You so much for sharing this with us !!! xoxoxoxoxox
I cant wait for SR1, and wow. Words cannot express how beautiful this video
thank you for doing this for me… I have LOVED my online experiences with you…. I have shared this sweet opportunity with so many women…. you will be hearing from us…. we send our love and encouragement to keep going and keep lighting the world….
Thank you so much for posting this incredible video where we can access it whenever we need it. I love watching it and feeling the love and support rushing off the screen and washing over me. It is so very special.
I soo love the new clubhouse…as with all others, would love to be there playing! i am trying to live out loud and try new projects, besides a wall book personal journal i am also in process of FINALLY taking a chance on myself and have figured out the basics of collaging and i am thrilled to no end! i do have a wonderful teacher, mary jo mcgraw, who has continually inspired me (i have lots of classes with her!), now BGC seems to be the extra “different” emotional step i didn’t realize i needed (i do!!). thanks so much for the inspiration…one day i will be able to start the soul restoration classes…
You are so amazing! I so wish to go to Brave Girl Camp some day. I know it would be life changing!
I will never forget how this video made me feel… cherished, loved & part of something so much bigger than just little old me, flying solo. I know I will reach new heights thanks to Soul Restoration and the entire Brave Girl Community. God bless all of the women that took part in this amazing 800+ candle lighting ceremony and god bless all of my soul restoration sisters… xox
This reminds me that in my darkest hour there will be light and it will lift me up. Thank you
The more I see and hear about Brave Girls camp the MORE it reenforces in my mind and heart that I will find a way to get there. I have been struggling with self acceptance and making an {at times} challenging marriage work! I sopke with my husband yesterday about attending next year and he has relented… I just have to start putting away a little every paycheck and I know what I am asking for for Christmas, birthday and MOther’s Day next year… cash towards my registration!!!! This is going to be so exciting!
How fun! I love music, so this would have been such a treat for me!