Dear Phenomenal Girl,
If we could all make a habit of looking forward 5 years or so….so many things would be so much easier…we would fret so much less…we would let things go so much more quickly.
Think for a bit…will it matter in 5 years? Will we be proud of the decisions we are making 5 years from now? Will I be glad I did this 5 years from now? Will I even remember this thing I am worried about 5 years down the road? Will I be proud of what I spend my time and money on 5 years from now?
So many things feel so important…or so difficult….things that are really just distractions. Can you remember what was worrying you most 5 years ago? Can you remember the things that you bought, or that you wanted or that you were spending all of your time on? Think hard about what you maybe would do differently now that you know better…….then do it….so that 5 years from now you will know that you did better as soon as you knew better…
…and those are the makings of an awesome life…the kind of life you deserve, beautiful friend.
You are so very loved.