Dear Fabulous, Amazing, Terrific Girl,
Who was it that told you that you aren’t just right exactly as you are?
Where did you get the message that you are a disappointment when you aren’t doing things perfectly?
Yes…there are voices screaming those messages all around us. But please, dear friend, please look at where those voices are coming from. Are they coming from mouths and hearts and souls who really know you and care about you? About YOU as an individual? Do those voices really even know you and who you are and what you are about?
One of the funny things about life is that we often believe the one negative voice that is surrounded by the hundreds of positive ones. Please believe the people who love you, the people who know you, the people who want what is best for you…..and let go of any other voices that don’t speak the truth. Even let go of the voices that speak the partial truth but then season it with a few painful jabs here and there that only cause discouragement and doubt. Stick to the truth.
You are so very loved.
xoxo
This reminds me of something I once told a friend when she was upset about some bullies at school “I’s Mind over matter. Those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind. Just be you”