Dear Lovely Girl,
Are you suffering from destination frustration? It’s quite amazing that we often really really really let ourselves believe that “someday” we will get “there”.
Someday we will have it all figured out, someday we will have the perfect day, or the perfect body, or the perfect year, or the perfect family, or the perfect marriage….and then we hold on to that belief and we wait and wait and wait for the happiness it will bring and work and work and work for it, making us blind to all of the things that are gifts in the every day.
The fact is……we never really do get “there” and have it stay “there” for any length of time without the same amount of work that it took to get “there”. The journey just continues….until the day we die. This is why it’s so important to understand that it’s all about the journey. It’s about using your best china every day, and saying the words in your heart every day, and treating every day like it might be the last day, and not waiting anymore.
Because really, the only destination that we truly have control over is our mindset….and that can happen NOW. So, why wait? THIS IS YOUR LIFE…TODAY…..RIGHT NOW.