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Sweet, supportive, loving, incredible Brave Girls….you know that all around you and all around the world Brave Girls just like you are struggling. They don’t show it, but inside they feel it. What if you knew? What if you could see into their hearts? What if she was your sister or your daughter or your mom. Today our question is…
What would you tell a Brave Girl to help her follow her dreams?
Remember…she is real. What would you tell her if you had a quiet minute together? Leave a comment and tell her…she’ll find it.
xoxo
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Dear Darlingheart,
You were made to fly ~ just spread your arms open wide and let the wind of your desires sing to you and rise you higher and higher ~ and feel the wind in your face and the smile across your face.
That when Shakespeare said “To thine ownself be true” THIS is what he meant. Do not give up YOU for the good of others. They neither ask it nor expect it. Do give them YOU…in your wholeness…in your success….that’s what they want….
Oh wow…what would I tell another Brave Girl about her life’s dreams? I think that would depend upon the dreams…if followed will it/they lead to the best place possible or will the dream be the dream of someone who follows the easy short path? My Truth Teller tells me I should tell her to seek her Truth Teller…and to truly search her heart and her Soul—and I pray that she has restored her Soul before embarking on a life changing journey! Wow…dear Brave Girl—it is for you!
Don’t give up. When if feels overwelming or if it feels they’ll never come true, take a step back and look to see how far you’ve come. You will get there.
Stop looking around you, Your dreams are found deep with in YOU! Only your heart holds the key to your dreams. This I know to be true.
I have lived a life where I’ve been told I can’t do things. Either I haven’t thought them through or there wasn’t the money to invest in my interests. All of it, though, was based out of fear and control. Unfortunately, I still have to battle all those thoughts when I desire to do something. Lately, I have been allowing myself these things. Where would they take me if I didn’t have the fears? My biggest fear was a blank white canvas. “What if I messed it up?” I would have considered myself a failure. “How much would this failure cost me, financially?” If it didn’t work out, I could just throw it away. Or start over later. But what if I DID succeed? I didn’t know the answer to that question.
Guess what? I made the most beautiful painting. And this small task helped me to face other fears I have. Fear of heights-I climbed Moro Rock in the Sequoias and I’m still alive. I even brought home some Moro Rock dirt to say “I did it”.
The point? Face the fears. Live your dreams. Cuz when you get old and crotchety, your body can’t do these things anymore and all you’ll have is your memories. What do you want to remember?
It can be scary. People aren’t always good and we don’t succeed right away. Following your dreams is scary business. But the passion you feel, the fire in your soul to do those dreams can not be bottled up. Don’t suppress your true deep life driving dreams! You will become more & more unhappy. BUT if you take those fears and trample hem under you drewam fufilling actions, your soul will be full and your happiness overflowing. You need to decide to commit to yourself and take the reins. YOU GO GIRL!
To those who have run the gammut ,been through the ringer etc…We all have dreams of some sort.Dreams to escape reality right on up to reachable dreams.Keep dreaming . It can help you through the rough times.If you stop your dreaming it takes away your goals that help you continue your climb.You should check those dreams now and then and adjust accordingly but don’t stop and don’t give up on them!!
Life can be full of disspointments and dreams are the things that help us overcome these dissapointments. It can be be a small dream such as getting a new job or it can be a big dream like world peace. Whatever your dream is…if you believe in it then it will come true. All your dream needs is nurturing and love and then it will come true. Treat it like a child…you can/t win a race before you can crawl. One step at a time and it will come true!
Good Luck Brave and Wonderfull girl!
That you were made just the way you are for a reason, with your own thoughts and dreams. Don’t let anyone discourage you by saying your dreams are impossible or not realistic. Seek out positive and supportive friends and mentors. Be strong and trust yourself.
Dare to dream the biggest thing you can imagine, squeeze it tight, then let if FLY!
~D~R~E~A~M B~I~G~
If You can dream it, You can do it.
This doesn’t mean by yourself, watch, look, listen you do have
kindred spirits who will Dream and Do with you.
My brave friend,
Dreams and hope go hand in hand. They sprout in the same garden. Dreams are fed from the sunshine of hope, and sometimes the tears brought out by our struggle to attain those dreams. Dreams are a requirement in life. Why a requirement, you ask? If you don’t have your dreams, you aren’t moving forward. Sitting in one spot rather than moving forward doesn’t make us feel peaceful. We just become more stuck. So dig out that dream buried from the not-to-distant past. Put it up on your horizon, where the sun can reach it and your tears can feed it. It’s time, brave friend to move forward in life.